The Kingdom Style of Living

Kindness

2Samuel 9:1-9

Plato once said "Treat everyone you meet with kindness because they might be fighting a harder battle than you are."

A Kentucky man told this story:

Leaving a store, I returned to my car only to find that I'd locked my keys and cell phone inside.  A teenager riding his bike saw me kick a tire and said a few choice words.  "What's wrong?" he asked.  I explained my situation.  "But even if I could call my wife," I said, "she can't bring me her car key, since this is our only car.."  He handed me his cell phone.  "Call your wife and tell her I'm coming to get her key." 

"That's seven miles round trip."   "Don't worry about it."

An hour later, he returned with the key.  He refused money.  "Let's just say I needed the exercise."  Then, like a cowboy in a movie, he rose off into the sunset.

A.  Kindness Can Come Out Of Pleasant Relationships

     Never underestimate the life-changing value of good friendships.  Today's Bible reading             was from the life of Israel's King David.  Long before David was king, he'd known the love of       his best friend, Jonathan, who was the son of Israel's first king - Saul.  Note these words:

     1 David asked "Is there anyone still left of the house of Saul to whom I can show kindness           for Jonathan's sake?".  By this time Jonathan was dead.  He'd died in battle.  But the                   memory of the sweetness of his friendship inspired David.  Let's be the sort of people who         leave reasons in others for them to want to be kind.  Let the desire to be kind be so strong         in you that you find people who will help you do it.  But, life isn't always full of loving                 relationships.....

B.   Kindness Can Come Out Of Bitter Experiences

      As loyal as Jonathan was to David, so as spiteful was his father, King Saul, toward David.           He had plenty of bad memories of King Saul: attempts on his life, hunted as a fugitive,               David's wife abducted and given to another.  If this happened to you.....Ah, but let the                 passing of time readjust your focus.  Leslie Wagner tells a story:

    When the supermarket clerk tallied up my groceries, I was $12 over.  I began to remove               items from the bas when another shopper handed me a $20 bill.  "Please don't put yourself       out," I said.  "Let me tell you a story," he said.  My mother is in the hospital with cancer.  I           visit her every day and bring her flowers.  This morning, she got mad at me for spending my       money on more flowers.  She demandedI do something else with that money.  So here,               please accept this  It is my mother's flowers."

     Back to David.  The king asked, "Is there no one still alive from the house of Saul to whom I       can show God's kindness?"  Ziba answered, "There is still a son of Jonathan he is lame in             both feet."  His nurse had accidentally dropped him and he was unable to walk.

C.  Kindness Can Come Out Of Compassion For Brokenness

    Develop the art of being kind for its own sake.  

     I was in a hurry to get to a store.  I was almost at the highway exit when two young men             next to a vehicle with hazard lights flashing appealed to me to stop.  The Holy Spirit bade           me  help them.  I had to back up quite a way to reach them.  Then I noticed that they were         wearing the kind of clothing I associate with street gangs in Newark  Oh well, I was deep           into it now!   They had a burst tire and no jack.  We struggled but got the wheel changed.          "What do we owe you?" they asked.  Not a thing - it was reward enough to have shown               kindness to two guys I might have been nervous to meet on a dark street!

     Back to David.  "When Mephibosheth, son of Jonathan, the son of Saul, came to David, he         bowed down to pay him honor.  David said, 'Mephibosheth!.....Don't be afraid, for I will                 surely show you kindness for the sake of your father Jonathan," (Kindness looks beyond the       need and sees the person),  "for I will surely show you kindness for the sake of your father         Jonathan.  I will restore to you all the land that belonged to your grandfather Saul, and you         will always eat at my talble."  Huh, Is it really kindness before it has cost you something               personally?

D.  Kindness Can Open A New World For Someone

    A bit of advise from John Wesley, founder of the Methodist Church:

   "Do all the good you can, in all the ways you can, to all the souls you can, in every place you       can, at all the times you can, with all the zeal you can, as long as ever you can."

    It takes the fruit of kindness to do THAT much good.  "Then the king summoned Ziba, Saul's      steward, and said to him, "I have given your master's grandson everything that belonged to        Saul and his family."  That's an example of kindness opening a new world for someone, the        fruit of kindness.

Conclusion

Now, it's not good enough to MEAN to be kind.  You have to connect with REAL people, in REAL time, at REAL places, with people who have REAL needs.  Consider this story from a nursing college:

"During my second year of nursing school our professor gave us a quiz.  I breezed through until the last question: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?'  I handed in my paper leaving the last question blank. One student asked if the last question would count toward our grades.  'Absolutely,' the professor said. 'In your careers, you will meet may people.  All are significant.  They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say hello.'  I've never forgotten that lesson.  I also learned her name was Dorothy."